***Please be advised that there is a line in this newsletter that some readers may find offensive or disturbing. I debated whether to change it to something more generic but I felt it lost the essence so I kept it in.***
A year ago, the mere thought of speaking on stages, recording videos, or engaging online filled me with apprehension. Now, however, I find myself embracing these opportunities more and more these days. The more I do it, the easier it gets and the more I enjoy it. But what led me to start?
First, my motivation. You’re all aware of my drive for swift action on critical issues like climate change and social justice. Speaking to larger audiences worldwide is integral to furthering these causes — But I had that same motivation a year ago. So there must have been something else — a pivotal point in my speaking arc that shifted everything.
I was in Los Angeles for Tech Week. On an off night, my friend Magalie and I attended an amateur comedy show. As expected, some performances were good and others needed practice. But one act stood out for all the wrong reasons — and I don’t mean in terms of jokes falling flat or lackluster delivery, but because of its shockingly offensive content. I have immense respect for those starting out in comedy — it can be hit and miss sometimes and they keep trying. But this went beyond that. I mean, this guy was so incredibly offensive that it was almost unbelievable (I won’t share the awfulness of his jokes but just know that he had a series of ‘jokes’ that involved having sex with a baby). The room fell silent, and I was left stunned.
In that moment, clarity struck. If that performer could take the stage with such an objectionable routine, surely I could put myself out there and still land on my feet. If I spoke about my passion, my heart, and my drive for change, I couldn’t possibly be as bad as he was, even if I completely flopped. It was surprisingly liberating.
Someone said to me recently that they appreciate that I can find inspiration in everything, and I guess that might be true.
What pivotal moment propelled you from fear into action?
